Who I want to meet...

I wanna meet someone who tears down my walls without even trying.
Someone who won't ever lie to me. Someone who doesn't put up with my shit,
but confronts me about it, someone who isn't afraid to put me in my place.
Someone who not only steals my heart, but gives me theirs.
Someone who isn't scared to take a chance on love.
Someone who would give me everything, because I have nothing left to give.
Someone who falls as fast as I do. Someone who would take a bullet for me,
and someone I would die to love.
Someone I could actually sleep around.
Someone who would write/play [actually play it on an instrument] a love song for only me.
Someone I can chill with, and do absolutely nothing, and still have the best time.
Someone who pushes me to be better, and supports me when I feel weak,
and reminds me that I'm strong. Someone who can handle every kind of bipolar mood swing that I have.
Someone who has life figured out, cuz I sure dont, and I'm sick of the chaos.

The big start

Here I go again, the journey to love in my walk of life... don't know how to face it again... Maybe I'm scared of knowing other person and finding ouy what's the truth behind the lies... Wishing he's the right one... Asking for signs...

I wonder where my heart will take me... Where my feet will land and my heart stops beating for everyone else... And will only beat for him...

Is he my soulmate?

That's what I'm about to find out...

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“Being single is not the end of the world.
What is the end of the world?
it is when you stop trying to find your next boyfriend/girlfriend/soulmate.”

Anthony D.

Easy come, easy go.. Where does my hair go?

If your lonely and depressed

just go to salon and make your gair done

rather than bragging thing to other person...

Then you'll notice how beautiful you can be

if you don't let anger mock you down on your knee....

"have a great school year everyone!''

When I fall inlove...

Love love love....

Ilang beses na ba ako nainlove? Isa pa lang, but it doesn't mean that I know less about it neither do I say that I know everything about it. Let's just say ... at that one moment, I've already pictured what is love for me.

It wasn't at all perfect and ideal but I can say that it's a true and and an everlasting love. But everything, even the good things doesn't last... and so my first love ended...

I have once said to myself that I should have a bf at the age of 25 and so I had a bf at the age of 18 ... I then told myself that I'll get marry at the age of 30 ... But then I'm getting near to my age where I should have a boyfriend... and 2 months before that... I still don't have one... And so, many are asking... what will happen 2 months from now... I then simply answered... "by that time, I will turn 25'' ... I'm not planning to close my door to any possibility that I will then find my one true love... But the thought of marriage is but afar ... But still, I'm hoping for that special someone to come and conquer my life, heart and happiness.

Maybe its too early to tell, but its not bad to assume that its comming. Now, I only want to live my life... Like everyday is the last...

" I know I have found him, but just didn't recognize it was him''

Love love love....

Ilang beses na ba ako nainlove? Isa pa lang, but it doesn't mean that I know less about it neither do I say that I know everything about it. Let's just say ... at that one moment, I've already pictured what is love for me.

It wasn't at all perfect and ideal but I can say that it's a true and and an everlasting love. But everything, even the good things doesn't last... and so my first love ended...

I have once said to myself that I should have a bf at the age of 25 and so I had a bf at the age of 18 ... I then told myself that I'll get marry at the age of 30 ... But then I'm getting near to my age where I should have a boyfriend... and 2 months before that... I still don't have one... And so, many are asking... what will happen 2 months from now... I then simply answered... "by that time, I will turn 25'' ... I'm not planning to close my door to any possibility that I will then find my one true love... But the thought of marriage is but afar ... But still, I'm hoping for that special someone to come and conquer my life, heart and happiness.

Maybe its too early to tell, but its not bad to assume that its comming. Now, I only want to live my life... Like everyday is the last...

" I know I have found him, but just didn't recognize it was him''

love love LOVE

Now I have more reasons to write about love and all the things that I like, love and wants to share to the whole world...

Its about touching lives, fill your hearts with love and make everyday special as you visit my site..

3 Good reasons to make the first MOVE

So here is what I love about yahoo, they always thrill me with lots of information and stuffs that I was so careless enough and things that really boost my energy and intuition to do the right thing and believe that what I'm doing is just RIGHT!

So to prove this theory, another inside story of yahoo have caught my attention ...

Read, believe and make it happen... see things this way, "its really fun being a girl"

Author: Theo Pauline Nestor

When my friend Stuart was a teenager, he and his friend were on a mission to find some fireworks. They stumbled into a convenience store where Stuart found himself face to face with a young and attractive clerk. Stuart then meekly inquired, “Do you have any firecrackers here?” The young woman, he recalls, scanned him from head to toe in a slow once-over and then breathily replied, “Just me, honey.”

Shy and flustered, Stuart admits he left the store that day pretty darn fast, but also confesses that most of his relationships throughout his life have been initiated by women because, as he tells it, he’s a “chicken” when it comes to making the first move. While I rather admire the nervy convenience store clerk, I tend to be a little more like Catherine, a 41-year-old nurse who was taught that nice girls don’t make the first move. Two years ago, Catherine decided to challenge the rules she grew up with and contacted a guy on Match.com whose profile caught her eye.

“This was a biggie for me,” Catherine says, “after being raised by a Catholic ex-Marine with four daughters who always said guys will think you are easy if you call them. Of course, he refused to let us pierce our ears or wear makeup because he wasn’t, after all, ‘raising a bunch of harlots.’” Today, she’s still going strong with the man with the intriguing profile. All good-girl Catherine needed to do was take a chance and break out of her ingrained (but outdated) patterns concerning dating stereotypes.

Like Catherine, many women have decided they’re not interested in waiting around and have realized that there are a lot of good reasons why a man might not be making the first move. Here are a few possibilities to consider:

1. He’s not so good at flirting

You might think of it this way: there’s one set of skills that are crucial for initiating relationships (flirting, for example), and there’s a completely separate set of skills for sustaining an established relationship. The man you’re interested in could be very skilled at sustaining a relationship, but have no clue when it comes flirting (and if you think about it, a guy like this might be a very good catch). Remember my friend, Stuart? He belongs to the latter category. “I’ve made the first move a couple of times,” Stuart says, “and they’ve been disasters. One previous girlfriend noted that I have zero flirting skills, which is what most people use to judge the terrain before making a move. Because I just lumber in, it’s usually a disaster. So almost all of my, uh, dates have been initiated by the woman or have been low-risk setups.”

2. He’s just a wee bit intimidated

Remember that annoying “Out of your league” expression? As in, “Don’t even try it, man. She’s waaaaaaaaay out of your league.” Well, as silly as that sort of thinking is to us now that we’re grown, it can linger on in some men’s brains and create confidence-crushing fantasies, such as this one:

1) Glance at beautiful woman;

2) Wonder momentarily if maybe, just maybe, she’d…

3) Have fantasy brutally interrupted by memory of “frenemy” (think Reggie from the Archie comic books or Iago from Othello) jeering: “Forget about it, man. She’s waaaaaay outta your...” and scene. Some fantasy, right?

In fact, I think this is exactly what may have happened to Sara’s future husband, Tom. At the time — some 15 years ago now — Sara and Tom were both working as promoters in the music industry. “People at radio stations all around the country would say to me, in a sing-song voice, ‘Somebody liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiikes you!’” says Sara, now a 44-year-old psychotherapist. “It actually began to annoy me, because I felt that if he liked me so much he should let me know. I refused to make the next move because I thought the whole thing smacked of high school.”

But when Tom did finally work up the nerve to call Sara, her roommate told him she was in Santa Fe for the weekend. Tom then conjured up the idea that if a beautiful woman like Sara were in Santa Fe, she must be there on a romantic weekend with a boyfriend. So, intimidated and discouraged, Tom decided not to ask Sara out. A year later when Sara spotted Tom at a party, she decided to make the first move. “Are you ever going to ask me out?” asked Sara. “I will now,” Tom replied. And he did. They’ve been married for 15 years.

3. He’s been treated badly in past relationships

Maybe you’re a bit like Sara and you’re thinking, “If he likes me so much, surely he can ask me out!” But before you dismiss him on the grounds of “not stepping up to the plate,” stop to consider what he’s been through. A painful, recent rejection — a long relationship ending suddenly against his wishes, perhaps — might be one reason why he’s hesitant to put himself on the line.

Sometimes, making “the first move” doesn’t even mean asking the guy out. It can be as easy as taking the conversation with an acquaintance to the next level by turning it from what’s happening in the news to what’s happening over the weekend. As Sara recalls, “It worked out well, my making the first move, but there was a lot of groundwork to be put down beforehand that helped me make that move a little bit easier.”

Theo Pauline Nestor is a regular contributor to Happen magazine and author of How to Sleep Alone in a King-Size Bed: A Memoir of Starting Over (Crown 2008).

So my dear readers, how was that? after reading this article, I feel like as if there was a bomb shell in me that has suddenly blast off without notice and now thinking that, maybe guys like Tom really does exist and I'm just a lot like Sara. Then I say, waiting for that right moment is a good thing for a girl, but if you are certain enough about the guys feelings, why not encourage and push him to admit it, beside letting him know how you feel about his attitudes towards you won't hurt a lot and will equally benefit you to stop thinking "why, he's like that to me" and if it it turns out that your wrong about it, you may now opt to stop wondering about what's the real score with your so called friendship. .

Is virginity really that IMPORTANT?

May nangyari man or wala... 

I do believe that its all because we respect each other

 more than we believe in ourselves 

and our family expects from us. 

WORDS

by Angela Manalang Gloria

I never meant the words I said,

So trouble not your honest head

And never mean the words I write,

But come and kiss me now goodnight.

The words I said break with the thunder

Of billows surging into spray:

Unfathomed depths withhold the wonder

Of all the words I never say.

This poem is from POEMS (1940).