First Day HIGH!

School has started again and I know many students are just so excited as I were too before...

School has been a dear place for me to stay,enjoy and meet other people... I do value most of my time in school because I spend more time there rather than my own home. It has been a big part of me to be able to go to school, meet my friends and fall in love at the same time. Valuing every minute shared on that campus makes me feel that I can always strive harder to do my best and make it up for everything else. 

I miss schooling so much, I hope this school year brings joy to many students and so as teachers. 

Have a great time and enjoy every moment while it last!

Patience

My day didn't start as good as it gets...

oh Dear Lord...
give me patience so I can survive the day and can smile all day long... pls pls pls

Not Everything you THINK, SEE and FEEL are True

Naranasan mo na ba na mag-ask ng sign? at lahat ng iyon ay nakita mo, naramdaman at naniwala kang ang lahat ng yun ay patungo sa isang makabuluhang bagay/tao/mangyayari sa hinaharap na matagal mo ng hinihintay? Tapos magugulat ka na lang isang araw na ang lahat ng hinihingi mong sign ay totoo, pero sa tao na nakitaan mo ng lahat ng iyon ay pawang NATURAL na pala sa kanya.

Ate, ate, ate... ate at kuya pa ang tawagan niyo, madalas na unang tawagan daw ng hindi mo malaman kung saan patungong relasyon... tatawagin kang ate, eh mas matanda pa pala siya sa'yo, tatawagin mong kuya, pacute ka pa, yun pala taken na .. taken for granted ng girlfriend niya..kaya pinapatulan ang pacute mo sa kanya. Meron naman FRIENDLY ang drama, kunwaring walang gusto , but deep inside super like ka niya, pero dahil friends lang kayo, cannot be tutubi ang ending nito. Eto naman si MANHID at TANGA na kunwari balewala lang sa kanya,yun pala super hulog na hulog na. 

Pero paano kung sweet lang naman talaga siya? kuya ng bayan, ate ng kabataan? paano ka na hihingi ng sign kung alam mong lahat ng hinihiling mo ay nakita mo na sa kanya at hindi ka na humihiling pa, kasi umaasa ka na darating ang time na aamin siya at sasabihin na "sa lahat ng ate ko, ikaw ang pinaka mahal ko..."

WAIT!!!! pinaka??? so meaning, may "mahal", "mas mahal", at "pinaka mahal"? saan mo ba gustong ilugar ang sarili mo?... sa gasolina, pamasahe or sa palengke?? kung saan, lahat nagmamahalan na, kayong dalawa na lang ang hindi pa. 

Sabi nga nila, "not every MR. PERFECT may actually be Mr. RIGHT", kasi, andyan si Mr. PAASA, Mr. PaFALL, Mr. SWEET at Mr. TEXT adik... Mahilig lang talaga siyang magtxt at magpadala ng quotes na ikaw naman, super kinikilig ka na parang hindi mo alam na forwarded lang sa'yo yun at hindi original composition niya, na hindi lang ikaw ang nakatanggap ng ganun kundi buong nasa phone book niya! at magugulat ka na lang na may magfoforward din sa'yo ng ganon na message in which pareho niyong kilala. Manghula ka na lang sa original sender ng txt niya sayo.

And after mong mafrustrate at ulanin ng magical quotes from Mr. TXT Adik.. andito na to the rescue si Mr. PAASA a.k.a Mr.PaFALL... mega comfort pa siya at super promise ng kung anu-ano... and ikaw naman, mega hintay ka to make it happen, kahit alam mong parang every seconds count sa schedule niya.. and kung may bakante pa? asa ka naman na ilalaan niya yun para matupad ang mga pangako niya!!! kung politiko nga di tumutupad sa pangako, siya pa kayang lahat na nasabi na niya, pero ayun.. sabi lang... thou totoo... wala namang ACTION! baka naman kasi ang motto niya is "pen is mightier than a sword" tabasin mo kay dila niya ng sword at tadtarin na parang Mighty Meety Hotdog!

Nakakatuwa, nakakakilig, pero ang lahat ng ito ay may katapusan din...bakit naman kasi ang torpe ng mga lalake, yung iba bading pa and the rest kung di babaero at manloloko... eh napikot na ng sino... Eto namang si babae.. pa-epek din ang drama, siya na nga nililigawan, nagmamaganda pa! eh siete naman ang buhok niya! kaya maraming tumatandang dalaga at binata eh.

Hay naku...buhay pag-ibig... hindi mo masabi kung si Mr. Paasa eh paasa ba talaga or dahil merong si Ms. Manhid at Ms. Tanga na nahuhulog naman kay Mr. PaFALL... kay Mr. TXT Adik ka na lang kaya...tamang kwentuhan at biruan, kapag pinasahan ka ng matinding banat, balikan mo ng isang matinding palaglag effect!Pangontra sa mga mr. Paasa at PaFALL na tulad ng iba.

One lesson to learn... Try not to look for Mr. Right 'coz you might ended with Mr.Wrong and eventually be Mr. Left you Behind... take care of your heart, live life to the fullest and love like you've never been hurt.

Cyberchemistry vs. REALITY

So his email messages raise your blood temperature a few degrees and bring a blush to your face. Somehow he knows just what to say to get a rise out of you and fill your mind with wild imaginings. But even though his keystroked sweet nothings cause you to breathe a little faster, how do you know if he’ll really have that magic touch, in the flesh?

Does hot cyberchemistry automatically translate to sizzle between the sheets?

In a word, nope. But that doesn’t mean it can’t happen, because thousands of brilliant matches have gotten their start online. But even when the e-repartee is hot, it’s not until you meet face-to-face that you’ll know for sure that you two have that spark.

Katherine, a 41-year-old single mom and registered nurse, became a true believer after meeting her soul mate over the Internet.

Katherine says, “When Paul and I met online, I was skeptical that it would go anywhere because he lived in Italy and I lived in the States. I wasn’t even sure I’d bother responding to his first message, because it seemed futile. But something about his messages really resonated with me, and soon we were communicating several times a day. We just seemed to click on every level. After a couple of weeks, we began speaking on the phone. It wasn’t too long before I felt I was really falling in love with him, and he with me. There was definitely lots of chemistry between us! After five months of emails and phone calls, he arranged a trip to the U.S. I was so nervous as I watched his plane taxi in. What if the chemistry wasn’t the same when we met face-to-face? It could have been a devastatingly heartbreaking blow. But the miracle is that our chemistry was even more powerful in person. After a couple more transatlantic visits, Paul has now relocated to the U.S., and we are happily married.” 

Terry, a 49-year-old social worker from Massachusetts, shares a different perspective.

Terry relates: “In my experience, not only does cyberchemistry not automatically translate to sizzle between the sheets, it doesn’t even guarantee you’ll want to see each other again after coffee. Some people are far better communicators via the written word than in the flesh, and the opposite is also true. While it’s exciting to have an erotic pen pal of sorts, it’s only one small aspect of the person. There’s no sight, touch, smell, hearing... and even one’s sixth sense is questionable. Nothing can offer more clues to a person than his body language, gestures, the tilt of a head, not to mention the sound of his voice.”

Terry continues, “When you think about it, online dating is like waiting for a Polaroid to come completely into focus. You get one thing at a time — first the words, then the voice, then a body, then the person — at least the part they want to show you. I use my intuition more than anything and it’s rarely been wrong. Is real-life chemistry possible? Absolutely. Is it automatic? No way.”

Bottom line, the mystery of romantic chemistry is just that: a mystery. Whether you meet online or the old-fashioned way, if the chemistry’s sizzling, you’ll know it’s for real when you feel it in the flesh.

7 signs to know if you have CHEMISTRY

Sweaty palms? Sort of. A pounding heart? A bit. Even so, you’re still not completely sure there are sparks between you. Understandable: While it’d be nice to think that the earth moves and the angels sing when you’ve found The One, sometimes the signals that you two are truly meant for each other are much more subtle than that. Here are seven dead giveaways that singles often miss — know that if you spot one or more of them on your next date, that’s good news.

Subtle sign #1: You turn into a total klutz

So far, you’ve dropped your fork and knocked over your water glass…and that’s before the entrées have arrived. While embarrassing, these gaffes are actually a good sign. “When you have serious chemistry, your body produces elevated levels of the neurotransmitter norepinephrine,” says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., research professor of anthropology at Rutgers University. This, in turn, can make you jittery, uncoordinated, and a little accident-prone. And if you’re embarrassed by your klutziness, that’s a good sign too! Because if you don’t care what your date thinks of you, you probably don’t think much of your date.

Subtle sign #2: You notice a tiny dent in your date’s pinkie nail

Or that your date’s hair flips up on the left but under on the right. You’ve never noticed something like that about a person before, so why now? Because when there’s true chemistry, the body’s levels of the chemical dopamine rise and lead to “imprinting,” a theory of attachment discovered by German ethologist and Nobel Prize winner Niko Tinbergen. This imprinting makes you focus on this one person more clearly and notice the tiniest, most insignificant details about a person — including possessions. Says Dr. Fisher, “Your date’s car in the parking lot looks different. His or her backpack looks different. That person’s coat on the coat rack stands out. Everything is special, novel, unique.”

Subtle sign #3: You agree to split the spinach dip appetizer — and you don’t even like spinach dip!

True chemistry makes us more mellow than usual — so don’t be surprised if you find yourself being agreeable with your date in ways you might not with anyone else: You don’t mind walking 10 blocks with your date from your parking spot. You’re suddenly up for seeing a Rob Schneider movie. And even though you’re not a fan of Indian food, what the heck, you’ll give it another shot. “When you’re falling in love, you more easily surrender your boundaries because of a strong desire to merge with that person,” explains Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Keeping the Love You Find.

Subtle sign #4: The room you’re in seems brighter than usual

Did someone nudge up the dimmer switch? Perhaps. But it could also mean you’re smitten, thanks to a physiological reaction discovered by University of Chicago biopsychologist Eckhard Hess, a pioneer in the area of “pupillometrics.” In short, Hess found that when people look at something or someone that causes positive feelings or sparks interest, their pupils dilate in an attempt to take in more of it, also letting in more light as well.

Subtle sign #5: You’re more fidgety during the date

If you find yourself stroking your own arm, tapping your leg, or otherwise fidgeting during the date, rest assured: Whether you fully know it or not, you like this person. “These are ‘displacement gestures’ — what you do when you’re trying to decide what to do with yourself,” explains Dr. Fisher. “If someone is smiling at you and you can’t decide if you should smile back or look away, you play with your hair. Or you run your tongue along your teeth.” This happens because your brain is over-stimulated, leading you to vent the extra energy with a little self-grooming. Some experts even argue that stroking your own arm or leg indicates a subconscious desire to reach out and touch the person you’re with.

Subtle sign #6: You keep forgetting there’s food on the table

When you’re out with someone who doesn’t float your boat, boy, do those garlic mashed potatoes taste good. But if you’re feeling a chemical attraction to someone, the food being served is the last thing on your mind — and not just because you’re nervous. Blame this on elevated levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine, which fuels feelings of desire. Higher levels of dopamine, according to Dr. Fisher, “give you a feeling of lightness, increased energy and a feeling of minor ecstasy. And you’re definitely not hungry!” So if your date seems disappointed that you only ate four bites of your steak, you can clear it up later by explaining what a five-star sign it really is.

Subtle sign #7: You feel more “familiar” with your date than “lusty”

 

Sure, most people think it’s a good sign when they want to jump over the table and rip their date’s clothes off. But let’s be honest—there are plenty of acquaintances you’ve wanted to do that to, and there was no deeper, underlying chemistry there. A stronger sign is that instead of feeling lust for your date, you’re overwhelmed by a feeling of familiarity — a sense of, “Gosh, I feel like I’ve known you before.” The chemistry at work, says Dr. Hendrix, “is due to the emotional center in your brain’s limbic system recognizing qualities in the person that resemble qualities about the caretakers we had during childhood.” For example, a man might recognize a feeling of being at ease and nurtured the way his mother made him feel. A woman might feel comfortable with the dry humor of her date, similar to the way her father interacted with her. “This intense familiarity triggers the release of dopamine, which can lead to that ‘Wow’ feeling,” explains Dr. Hendrix. Oh, and by this point, it’s also definitely OK to want to jump over the table and rip your date’s clothes off!

How to tell if the guy likes you or he's courting you?

This line suddenly pop out in my mind... how can u say that a guy is already courting you? or if he does like you... like the way you do...

It's really hard to tell, well.. as for me who only had ONE boyfriend for 23 years... its getting really into my nerves on identifying if a guy likes me of he is just being nice to me like everyone else.

Guys are so typical on their expressions.. they smile, laugh and join you in times of things that the world is like has stood still for you... but how can you tell.. well, I can't and I really want to find out how to know about it...

and I'm about to find out as in this rainy season!!! for crying out loud...

My Only Love

Just to say I love you
never seems enough,
I've said it so many times
I am afraid you won't understand

What I really mean when I say it
How can so much feeling
so much adoration possibly fit into
those three little words

But until I find some other
way of saying what I feel, then
"I love you" will have to do.

So no matter how many times I say it,
never take it lightly,
for you are my life
and my only love.

I love you more
than ever before.