Thursday, July 29, 2010

Truth about LOVE

Dear Girls (from us guys)...

Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do. It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.

Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends. We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them. When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous. You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.

On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yes, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.

 Dear boys,


If sometimes we didn’t let you know where we are, it doesn’t mean we’re flirting with other boys. We just want to know if you really care for us.

When we talk about our ex-boyfriends, it doesn’t mean that we’re making you jealous. We’re talking about our ex-boyfriend because we don’t want to keep secrets from you. Please don’t lose your trust.

So it hurts when we talk with guys without introducing you? That’s exactly what we feel when you flirt with other girls in front of us.  It is not necessary to call us pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning always because it sounds insincere at times. We don’t want to hear it; we want to feel that we really look awesome in your eyes. Remember, action speaks louder than words.

We want to kiss you in front of others to let them know how much we love you. Don’t let us kiss you when no one’s watching because it would make us feel that you’re hiding from someone. Make us FEEL that you love us for WHAT WE ARE and WHO WE ARE.

Admit that you cheat more than us. When we hang out with other guys it doesn’t mean we’re flirting. We do have the right to be with other friends when you’re busy with others too.

It is not that easy to lose the guy that we love so much. So don’t expect us to give up and find another one. If you don’t want to see us miserable, then don’t let us be down in the mouth. Don’t lie to us, don’t cheat, don’t make us feel stupid, love us, and we’ll do the same. Respect begets respect. Love begets love.


Sincerely yours,
Girls 

credits to my pinoyden family  nhemfhubby and bauer

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